Most people believe that having a crush on someone is the best thing, if a) you’re single or b) you have no other option because you’re single. And why are people single? It’s cause, a) They can’t find the right person or b) The right person they’ve found is out of their league!
Now, why people believe this fact that a one sided crush is better than a relationship? An obvious answer is-
No drama, no fights! Just us and the Dopamine…
No cheesy-peesy over-carey harmone imbalancing possesive jealousy!
Just us and our fantasy!😚
I can tell with my crush-ing experiences that yes, it’s awesome- only up to a time period. What sucks is the long term crush, which you know won’t lead anywhere, but still you can’t stop crushing on them, because they’re hella awesome! But,then when you’re finally over them and all of your previous heart breaks, you think you’re now free as a frisbee! But ,then BAMMM!!!😓
You meet this – entirely-amazingly-completely-’I wish we were together’ kind of a perfect person…..
And you’re trapped again, in your own uncontrollable, your unconscious-subconscious mind and your stupid needy heart- which you by the way will never accept.Ever!😏
But sometimes, it’s not about just a feeling you get for the crush but the liberation that you feel for your inner self. Because after a long-term depressed period, when you thought you’ll never be able to feel it again- you’re here. And it’s tempting to your soul. You’re not just all happy and giggly for the person, but you’re happy for yourself- that you’re healed. Your wounds of desire are cured and are again free to want more, to want what you’re worth having…
You’re heart is beating again but only for yourself and you now realise that how fucking stupid it is to ever think “Mera Dil sirf tumhare liye dhadakta Hai”…Duh!!!!😑
So, you feel proud of yourself that how far you’ve come & you made it through the worst phase of your life. The ‘new you’ is finally feeling that infatuation it was waiting for to move on.
And that is why, sometimes the ‘crush’ or the ‘major crush’ in my case is important to make us realize that we meet everyone for a reason & I think I met him to make me realise that I am ready, for a new journey and that I can visualize him being a part of it.😍💜
So, Thank you, Mr.Crush.😳
P.S. He is NOT out of my league, he just doesn’t know how awesome I am!…Yet (wink)..😉